women under 30

         Two writers named Joan Deparle and Sabrina Tavernise wrote a article named "For Women Under 30 ,Most Births Occur Outside Marriage". The article talks about how most women under 30 about are having children before marriage and most of them are single mothers on there own. most of this is happening in Middle America. 

         There use to be a time when men and women wouldn't have sexual relations until they were married. A book named "Coming Apart " by a author named Charles Murray. He has come up with statistics that says 73% of black , 53% of Latino, and 29% of white children are born outside of marriage. I think that this trend of having children before marriage ruins the life of the children you bring into this world. This child is going to go through trauma because she/he will see so many children with two parents and she will start to wonder why she/he has only one parent. when you explain ,it will make them wonder is it my fault my parent left me. 

        I think that my parents being married or unmarried really doesn't make much of a difference in any case. I was raised fine and I don't think it could be better or worse. I expect to get get married. I want to have a family, but the right way. I am going to wait to have children until I get married, because no kid is secured to do what is right if things aren't right when life started before them.